Lingerie Needs Accessories.

If you wear sexy lingerie to turn your partner on, it is all well and good, but to just wear sexy lingerie without any jewellery, sexy shoes or make-up is blasphemous. If you have just spent a big wad of money on some slinky, sexy lingerie item that will knock your partner into the next millennium, then you should also be thinking about other aspects of blowing their mind.

It Is All About Mood.

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To get someone who you love or that you just find sexy into the mood, you need more than just some flimsy floaty fabric and an advertisement that says this item is sexy. You need to do a little more than just wear then bare and then tickle under there.

If you were to walk out in your new tight fitting corset, your breasts pushed up to the extreme, like two ripened melons but with your hair a mess, with no makeup and wearing two old trainers, I think somehow the allure of the lingerie would be ruined. It would be like screwing an upmarket bag lady in a run down dirty area of town. You need to seduce your partner and this process is not always so cut and dry.

Lingerie, Seduction and Going the Full Yard

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Set your scene, you have unwrapped your lingerie item, tried it on, looked the part, got all sexed up and then hidden the lingerie item so that your partner does not find it before you are ready. You need to now find your music, get your best sexy tracks, and set them up in the machine before the seduction time comes.

Find as many sexy tracks as possible and put them beside the stereo player. The last thing you want to be doing is going to and from the stereo system changing your music. This would be like a scene from the classic old film ‘10′ - the Bolero Scene, it would be a complete disaster.

Every time coitus was about to occur you are taken off the boil messing around with the buttons on your two bit discounted stereo rather than the love buttons of your partner. You need to position your candles in the best positions in your house or selected room for seduction, and make sure you have enough matches.

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If all of the candles go out and you are searching around for a lighter or matches wearing your sexy open crotch panties and a flimsy baby-doll a lot of partners would have cooled down in this time period.

For most people the idea of seduction would be to forget about everything, take the phone off the hook, definitely not to invite any guests - unless your a swinger, do not answer the door if anyone knocks, make sure the kids - if you have them are somewhere else and the lady of the house should never begin cleaning.

If you are dressed up as a sexy maid then clean to your hearts desire, but if you are not in a sexy maid costume leave the cleaning for a more suitable time.

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Turning Your Partner On and Not Off

Turning your partner on requires lots of eye contact, trust, no leaving the chapter that the other partner is still part off, and at least 70% - 90% thinking about your partner and not yourself. A little like an unselfish out of body experience but hovering above the body of your partner and looking down at them, and not above your own body looking at yourself.

Foodstuffs, fabrics, handcuffs, whips, sexy costumes, vibrators and many other items and ideas can be incorporated into your erotic evening of seductive lingerie wearing. Never take your eye of the fact that it is you and your partner and not just you and your accessories.

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If you cannot put the time in to setting things up, at least wear some sexy shoes because a piece of lingerie when dropped to the floor and a naked woman wearing just her sexy shoes, is in my opinion one of the sexiest images I can think of.

Source: EZ

The Wedding Lingerie shoot has become a new tradition in western wedding days. However choosing the right lingerie can make a huge difference between a comfortable lingerie shoot, or one that is not so comfortable.

One of the biggest things you must consider once you have decided that you want to do a wedding lingerie photo shoot is to choose a photographer that you will be comfortable being with, in what you want to wear.

Choosing the right lingerie for this shoot is absolutely paramount because the quality of the photos you get will be dependent on how comfortable you feel. For most people this is the first time that you will be exposed in a way that only your partner has probably seen and this can be an issue for some people.

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First Item to Consider - Climate

When you are planning your photo shoot, you need to ensure that the lingerie you choose is suitable for your climate. For example if you are in a tropical climate like in Townsville then the type of lingerie that you choose should be a lighter fabric, it should be comfortable to wear in the heat if you are doing outdoor shots and it shouldn’t make you sweat or feel uncomfortable.

At the same time if you were doing your photo shoot during winter in a colder climate like Melbourne or Hobart then the lingerie you wear in an outdoor photo should be of a heavier fabric.

You may even consider in a colder climate to wear a corset, wedding lingerie mini skirt and a fur lined robe. If you dare, you might try wearing a demi cup bra with white satin garter belt and a white full length fur lined robe.

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Second Item to Consider - Location

A wedding lingerie photo shoot is about you showing your sexy side. It is not about creating pornographic images. The traditional wedding lingerie photo shoot is about art and the beauty, so when you choose your location ensure that you are going to have privacy so that you will feel comfortable in doing the photos.

The other thing to consider with location is the style of lingerie you are going to wear. If the location is in a studio then the photos can be as revealing or exposed as you feel comfortable with however in outdoor shoots you will need to consider the local laws. In some cities and even countries, exposing of certain parts of the body may attract the attention of the local law enforcement bodies.

Wedding lingerie is often more exposing than the traditional swim suits and there is often a fine line as to what is acceptable. Demi cup bras are in huge demand at in western cultures however this type of item does reveal the breasts and this may not be suitable for some cultures. One way around this is to use pasties over nipples to ensure that you are not exposing yourself.

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Third Item to Consider - How Many Pieces

Generally most brides to be have between 1 and 3 different pieces of lingerie that they will have their photos in. The three most common pieces we have seen people use are -

1. A white demi cup bra, g-string and garter belt with white stockings and gloves and high heeled shoes and a veil
2. Corset and G-String with veil
3. Wedding G-string with cuffs, garter, white stockings and high healed shoes.

The first item I mentioned could also be accessorised with jewellery and pasties for the demi-cup bra. Some ladies don’t feel comfortable wearing a g-string especially the plus-size ladies, so an alternative to the g-string is the white lace mini skirt or a pearl lace panty which is similar to a standard panty.

I recommend the white lace mini skirt for anyone who feels uncomfortable wearing a g-string in front of anyone that is not your betrothed. The white lace mini skirt could also be substituted in the third piece.

The last set of items are a little daring as they require you to cross your arms across the breasts so that they are not showing whilst being cuffed. An alternative way of doing this photo shoot is to wear a robe so that your breasts are covered. This will allow you to show the garter on your leg whilst not exposing your breasts.

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The bottom line with choosing the lingerie for your wedding day lingerie photo shoot is to wear lingerie you will feel comfortable in, in front of the photographer. I always recommend that you take along a chaperone for the shoot for your own protection and comfort. Enjoy the shoot as these photos will be part of your memorable day for your entire marriage.

Source: EZ